ok i had lost my daughter to s.i.d.s and she was 2 months old and i was 16 and i found out later on that i could not have any more kids and that really hurt me and iam with the man i love for 11 years now and we are stable in a home and income and we want to adopt private so the birth mother will feel better to know who we are but i dont know alot of people and someone else said to see if someone would just have a baby for me and just offer them support and it would be a blessing to us to even get a chance to be parents we are loving and kind people and i would do anything for anyone that needed help but how do i find someone to do that ? I just want the chance to experience motherhood so if you can help in anyway please let me know thank u